Schedule Crunch!!!

Darcy started working as an Aide for our pre-school’s 3-year old program in September. It’s not a lot of extra money, but it will help and it allows both Isaac (4) and Joel (2) to attend more conveniently. However, we also had to tweak schedules a little to make it work. And that’s a requiring a little more adjustment than anticipated…at least for me.

On the whole, the mornings are great. Where before I was rushing to get out the door as others were just waking and getting ready, now we are all up and moving around the same time. There’s six of us, so it’s still a little crazy. But I’m now leaving a 1/2-hour later to get the older boys out the door. So I can help Darcy get the younger two in the car and get some things cleaned up before I leave. I’m not big into chaos, so it’s really great to have time with the family and still leave things somewhat orderly.

What I’m finding to be a problem, however, is the OTHER end of the day. Because I’m starting work 30 minutes later…I have to stay 30 minutes later. That shifts the evening schedule by 1/2 hour for me (the rest of the family is largely unchanged) and things are getting a bit crunched! So far, I’ve had at least one night every week where I feel like I’m running from one place to the next. If anything comes up during the day while I’m at Northtown, I’m supposed to make up the time (I’m paid by the hour)…and that is a thoroughly exhausting exercise!

All this is to say that we need to cut back!!! Or, at least, I do. Not sure what all that will entail, but I’ve decided that Inside Worship needs to go on Hiatus indefinitely. As much as I enjoy writing and connecting with whomever is reading, it’s becoming too stressful to keep up. So, the Worship Debrief this coming week will serve as my final post until further notice. I will continue to monitor comments and respond as I have time.

It’s been fun and I look forward to getting back to it soon. Keep in touch!

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  1. Eric – I am glad you are learning to say “no” to some things- even though I’m sad about Inside Worship. Part of my spiritual growth has been coming to terms with the fact that things don’t have to be perfect, and I don’t have to be in the center of everything. God was teaching me to depend more completely on Him–and when I let go of some of the responsibilities I had thought were so important, God was able to increase my dependence and openness to His leading. Hang in there. K

    • Thanks for sharing and for the encouragement, Karen. God has a funny way of teaching us sometimes, but I know I often need to be reminded that I’m better off depending on Him than myself…or anyone else for that matter. So…

      …hanging in there!

  2. I always enjoy reading your blog, Eric, even though I never comment & I’ll miss it but I can understand how you won’t have time for it for a while.

    • I will miss writing…it’s really a lot of fun! Thanks so much for reading faithfully! Even if you didn’t comment, it’s great to know that people are reading and connecting! Here’s hoping you come back when I do. :)

  3. Eric – glad you are able to say “no” to something and try to find a balance that works for you & your family. Keep it up!

    • Believe me, Tracy, there are other things I would have rather said “no” to! But, the family has to eat and have a place to live and other boring stuff like that :D

      Thanks for the encouragement and for reading over the past year or so. I’ll be looking forward to the opportunity to get back into it.

      Here’s to balance…

  4. Eric, I am sad that you are going on hiatus from writing but I am thrilled that Darcy is working in the preschool. She is such a blessing to me and I thank you for the sacrifices you are making to allow her to minister to our three year olds.

    • Yeah, yeah, blah, blah, blah…whatever :D

      Seriously, though, I guess it’s my job as the husband to sacrifice for Darcy and my family. Can’t say I’m (always) thrilled about it…but Jesus is the example. He sacrificed himself for his bride and family – the church – so, I guess I can’t really be expected to do anything less.

      Can I?

      I will be sad to not be writing regularly. We’ll have to see what God has in store…

      Thanks for leaving the note and I’m glad that Darcy is a blessing to you and your class (not that I was worried, she is pretty cool! 8) )


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